Kunjalo nje, izithandani ezithandanayo ziyaluthanda ngempela ucansi oluthambile futhi awukwazi ukulisusa kubo, uthando uluzwela kude ngisho nevidiyo ikhombisa kahle, yize inhlamba enjalo. Iqoshwe kahle kakhulu, abafana badlala ikhwalithi, kuyacaca ukuthi bazama ngakho konke okusemandleni abo, bayamemeza, bayabubula, konke okungokwabo, ngithande kakhulu ukuthi konke kucatshangwa kanjani lapha, kubukwe ngenjabulo.
Yeka indodakazi yokutholwa ekhathalelayo, njengoCinderella! Futhi nakuba eze ezosebenzela usingababa wakhe ukuze ampompe izicathulo ezintsha, kodwa namanje hhayi mahhala ukuzifuna. Yilokho-ke engikuthandayo lolu hlobo lwemfundo, lapho amantombazane eqeqeshelwa ukuhola, hhayi ukulayisha mahhala. Imnandi endodeni futhi ihlekisa isibumbu sayo. Nokugwinya, wonke umuntu uyagwinya, izifebe kanye nabafazi bezindlu ngokufanayo. Kungaba kuhle amyeke akitaze amasende.